I don't know about you, but when I was in high school and college I used to have the worst time trying to strike up conversations with hot girls. I would go to parties with my friends and they would always seem to be able to pick up girls just by breathing, but I would seem to fade into the background and could never get girls to notice me. Even if I was trying to talk to a cute girl, I would clam up and then some other guy would end up talking to her right next to me and then take her home. It was incredibly frustrating.
I think I found it harder when I was trying to talk to girls I didn't know from somewhere. So if I didn't know them from a class or from work, I didn't even bother trying. But to be honest, even the girls from class and from work didn't notice me. Well, that's not entirely true. They did notice me but usually just to ask me if I thought one of my friends would go out with them. There's nothing more frustrating than thinking you are getting somewhere with a girl only to find out that she has been wanting to hook up with your friend the whole time she has been talking to you.
So, finally I got fed up with being that guy. You know, the one the hot girls always hang out with but never date. I decided that it was time to find girls who didn't know me so that I could reinvent myself. After all, if I could learn to talk to girls who I wasn't hanging out with, I wouldn't get stuck in the Friend Zone right off the bat. I had a chance to change the pattern that had followed me around my whole life. So I started looking for ways to make it easier to talk to hot girls. Really, if you look around the 'net there is a lot of advice out there that tells you what to do. The problem is that I really couldn't see myself doing any of it. I mean, it's easy to say "be yourself" or "buy her a drink and ask her questions." But to actually do it is a whole other situation.
Then I found Mehow. He has worked with celebrities and has a ton of advice about how to talk to chicks. Yeah, it sounds ridiculous, but some of his techniques really work. Best of all, he makes it easy because he even has audio recordings that you can listen to so you know exactly what to say to women and how to say it. Even though I wasn't able to change my nerves around hot girls, I have finally figured out how to flirt anyway because I practiced with the free audios on his site.
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